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Aligarh, Uttar Pradesh, India
What I am. This is very difficult question and i could not answer. I am a Research Scholar the Department of English Aligarh Muslim Unviersity India. And i am from the same city Aligarh.i like to connect with and have friendship with the people around the world.
Showing posts with label The complex of Identities. Show all posts
Showing posts with label The complex of Identities. Show all posts

Thursday, January 24, 2008


I think the most difficult task in the world is recognizing and determining the self identity.
‘What I am’ is a very tough question and I do not find any simple answer for it. Though I am afemale, still I hold different identities and various poses. I am daughter of somebody, I am friends for some, I am teacher for some students and student for some teachers. Some hate me because they do not love me and some love me because they do not hate me.

I am like tears for some and some take me as passions. The million Euro question is Why I am so?

I am not able to decide which identity first and which one to delay. I am not finding my self clear what is my first priority. What should I do first; love or hate, teach or sleep, going with or without, enjoying life alone or together. I ask you suggestions to come out from this complex series of waves.